What did you do wrong?

What did you do wrong?
What did I do wrong?

Have you ever had an expectation that wasn´t met or a circumstance that didn`t reflect the outcome you wanted?
You know, when you go all in, do your best and nothing.
Nada.
At least not in the time frame expected, or in the way it was supposed to.
The way it happens to everyone else.
THEY get it.
You might feel like you failed.
For example, when you change your diet and expect to slim down and Weight keeps packing on. Or when you change you start a new DETOX protocol for Optimal HEALTH, and you still feel like crap after 3 weeks. I changed my work situation and I let go of my shitty relationship.
What the heck, right? What did you do wrong?

Nothing.

Not a thing. It just didn`t go the way you thought it would, when you though, and how.

As long as we believe that we know the best outcome for ourselves we might get disappointed and feel let down. Why didn´t the Universe deliver? I planned it all out, in detail. I wanted to be happy and worked hard at focusing on that scenario. I know what will make me happy, right?

Maybe wrong.

I learned this the hard way. When I was bedridden, all I wanted was to get healthy. Of course, right? All I wanted was to get healthy right now. Overnight.
Just let me get this done and over with. I was asking for healing and happiness. I worked towards that goal every single day. From the time I opened my eyes until I went back to sleep, I studied and practiced towards that one goal. “Show me the way, thank you for this healing.”

I had no idea how grand that wish was. I wanted complete healing, yet I believed that meant to feel symptom-free, just like that, and that was it.

Not so.

I had asked for something that would take eight years to accomplish, even though I am not sure it is ever accomplished in the sense of it being an end station. An achevement.

It took me those eight years to realize the full extent of my wish, and the reflection in the way that it unfolded. The Universe was guiding me and giving me exactly what I wished for, and more. I just didn´t know better. How could I know what perfect health and healing would look like? I had never experienced it.

I had no perception of the how and the when. All I had was the ego that wanted out of pain, and the control freak inside of me that wanted it to happen in a certain way.

What we NEED to fulfill; our dream and mission, might not always be what we believe and expect it to be. Our perception is limited, and our vision is not clear. How would we know?

We have never experienced it before. How will we know what is the best way for anything to unfold?

We don`t.

This is why we have trust and faith.

You see, you might ask for weight loss or a pain-free life, but you are in reality asking for healing of the underlying cause.
I know, deep.

Ponder on this.
The symptom you are seeking to address is only that, a symptom.

You see, my life was always a blessing, even though I couldn´t see it.
My path was always perfect, although I believed otherwise at the time.
The book from From Hell to Inspired chronicles my experience through what I perceived as hell. What we as humans believe is a nightmare.

There is no way we can embrace the full and clear picture.
How could we? The possibilities are infinite, and we are often too caught up in the outcome to notice appreciate the experience in the now moment. Not until I was well into saving my life, back to being able to take some very short walks, fully educated as a health and Wellness Coach, could I see that everything was happening at the perfect time for me.

My experience is priceless as YOUR experience is for you.
The good the bad and the ugly.
Your TEACHERS.
My knowledge and first-hand suffering and hopelessness have left me wiser and more capable to spread my message than anything else. I have not only been healed at a physical, emotional and spiritual level. I have been conditioned to help others.

I got what I asked for and so much more.
I have been shown the way.
I have experienced true healing, and I have found my way to serve.
Even in my darkest hours, when I did not want to live, I was aware that I was taught to let go of the outcome.
You see, I was crazy attached to the outcome.
I was a control freak.
I had work to do.
I couldn`t grasp the concept for several years.
Not care about the outcome? Should I not give a damn if I got well or not? What was the use in working so diligently and hard, all day every day, with a one hundred percent focus, if I was not to care if I made it or not?

I know, hard to wrap the mind around.

The energy is this: There is a big difference between not caring about the outcome and letting go of it. When we let go of any type of control we allow what is best for us to enter. Letting go of the outcome means that we need to surrender to the process and not hold on to any idea or fear about when and how things will happen, but stay in faith and trust that it IS happening. We have to step aside, get out of the way and let spirit work through us and for us.

There are no rejections, only redirection, remember?

Life is never working against us, but for us. If you are sick, of ill health, do what you need to do to allow your body to heal, and step aside:

Let it happen.
Don´t get mental about it.
You will lose yourself and cling to an outcome that might not even be the one you think it should be.
Trust yourself and God.
Trust life, and let go.
Get a good Coach, get on a healing protocol, and let it flow.

You have set your goal.
You have ordered health.
You have mapped out a plan, and if not, you need to.
Get educated, and get serious.
Read up and take charge.

Letting go of the outcome is not the same as leaving everything to chance. It is not about not having to actually do what needs to be done.
It has everything to do with just that, and then let it go.

Now, focus on health only, on healthy thoughts and activities, on happy feelings and what makes you feel good.
Once you have the plan at hand, let it go.
We got this, and the outcome is so much grader than you will ever imagine.

If you let it.

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No excuses!

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Hilde Larsen
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